PARENTING, GIRL EMPOWERMENT
BY HEATHER FREEMAN, MPH
Confident Girl Lies
There are a few lies floating around about raising a Confident girl that are complete nonsense. In this post, we’ll get to the truth of the matter so YOU can move your girl forward.
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It’s normal to feel hesitant about focusing on your Confident girl. The problem is that many of your hesitations might be based on information that just isn’t true.
Let’s bust a few popular Confident girl myths.
Myth #1: She’s not the right age.
Have you ever heard the saying “Don’t wait for the perfect moment? Take the moment and MAKE it perfect.”
A girl is never too young….or too old to have someone in her life who consistently provides love, guidance, and support. Who is there when no one else is there to say “Girl, You’ve GOT This.”
Besides, we all know what happens to the person who waits for the perfect moment. THE perfect moment never happens and she ends up looking back on time saying “if only.”
Myth #2: My girl doesn’t want to hear what I have to say.
If you think you’re a nag, something is wrong. If you are not spending more than a quick passing each day talking Confidence with your girl, something is wrong. The truth is that many girls go without talking confidence because they don’t have someone to talk about it with.
When one of my students came to me, she was spending little of her time connecting with her girl. After she completed the Gutsy Girl Game Plan, she not only increased her time, the quality of that time together skyrocketed
More importantly, her daughter was now set up in a relationship with her that generated trust and got her opening up and talking – without nagging.
Myth #3: I need to get it right from the start.
Most people believe they have to have the perfect opening line, talking points, and speech, …..BEFORE they build confidence with their girl.
This could not be further from the truth.
Your Confident girl will give you direct insight into what she needs to hear. This kind of insight is priceless.
Adults spend half their paycheck each month for therapists to unravel what they’ve ignored about themselves for years and you get to teach her how to do it NOW, with your Confident girl.
Stop creating conversations you hope your daughter will listen to and start creating conversations that unleash her inner unicorn.
Now that we’ve shattered some major myths about parenting a Confident girl, you can start raising your girl with confidence.
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